We’ve all been there, minutes into our kids’ disastrous tantrums with no clue what to do about it and all our bad emotions about to boil over. In a video posted on Facebook, Knoxville, Tennessee, mom Sarah Van Sickle is sitting in her car crying while her toddler throws an epic tantrum in his car seat. Sarah says, “This is just a video for all the moms who feel like they’re crazy people when their kids have gone crazy. He is hoarse from screaming bloody murder for the last 40 minutes and he did it yesterday and the day before.” The mom said Koa even “bashed his head on the ground and has bruises on his head.” She adds: “When you feel like you’re going insane, and that you’re a failure as a parent, you just remind yourself that you are doing the best that you can and that you’re normal.”