Heartwarming footage shows 30 year old Vanessa Lynch promising to love her teary-eyed stepson Henry 'as if you were my own' during her wedding to his father Craig in Cambridge, Minnesota. Vanessa (left), a nurse from Minneapolis, had wanted to make sure that nine-year-old Henry knew how much she appreciated him on her wedding day, and so had secretly planned to dedicate part of her vows to the nine-year-old. A video clip of the vows shows the couple and Henry fighting back floods of tears.